A radical method of fulfillment for women and their partners



If you’re in a long term relationship and you’ve lost interest in sex, you are not alone.

If you focus intently on your book when he comes to bed, hoping he won’t give you “that look” that means he wants sex, you’re not alone.

If you have no idea why you’re reacting this way or what happened to your libido, you’re also not alone.

In fact, these are predictable, common, healthy reactions to a method of sex that doesn’t work for you.


You’re not broken, and your libido isn’t lost forever. 


When a woman comes to me having lost her sex drive, I say, “Good! You shouldn’t want that predictable, absent-minded method that passes as sex in our modern culture. It leaves women cold.”

There is a solution, and it’s so simple that it’s revolutionary. 


My marriage was on the rocks. After two kids and ten years, our sex life had degraded to an obligatory weekly encounter.


Typical sex advice didn’t help. 


Sexy lingerie, scented candles, or Cosmo’s latest blowjob tips didn’t resolve the tension, anxiety, and longing eating away at me. I felt more shut down and hopeless. My partner retreated to TV, beer, and work. We stopped making eye contact. Eventually, I had an affair and we divorced because we couldn’t find honest, practical help that produced results worth having.

My personal struggle sparked the revolutionary method of sex I teach that inspires women and feels better for everyone. 


“I used to love sex. Then… we got married and had kids, and something changed. When he asks me for sex, it’s a turn off. I have sex because he needs it, not because I want it. Honestly, I feel relieved when it’s over.” 

I hear this story on repeat from women in long-term relationships. It’s not just you. 


The good news: there’s nothing wrong with you.


Your sex drive isn’t gone. your partner isn’t the problem. You can feel turned on, excited, and connected again. If he wants more sex than she does, my work resolves this problem. 

Matt Mochary

Operator, Investor, Coach

“My wife and I have done many courses related to couples and intimacy.

  • Hendricks
  • David Deida
  • OneTaste
  • Lots of books by various authors

All are good. Bez’s course has been, for us, the most effective.”

Megan Clemens

Mother and Teacher

“In the past, there was a silent expectation that my husband wanted sex from me. I thought I was broken because I didn’t want to do it… what was wrong with me? When we did have sex, I felt like a good wife because I had done what I was supposed to do. But I didn’t enjoy it.

Bez changed everything. Now I have sex because I love it—I want more of it than my husband does!”


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Bez trains, educates, and speaks to women and couples about feminine sexual mechanics and sex for YOUR body.

Her signature 4-week program is provocative, eye-opening, and generates an immediately more fulfilling way to have sex.