by Bez Stone | Aug 3, 2017 | Relationships, Sex and Desire, The Feminine, True Stories |
Today’s Installment: Desperation This one is very personal and vulnerable… here goes! When I talk with women, there are few things they DO NOT want to be seen as: needy, picky, crazy—and desperate. For many of us, the LAST thing anyone ever told us was...
by Bez Stone | Aug 3, 2017 | Sex and Desire, The Feminine, True Stories |
Next Installment: “Trading” Needs This week I’m writing about having needs, because I’ve been examining all the ways I’m uncomfortable having needs in my relationships. One of the most common ways I see couples handle having needs is by...
by Bez Stone | Aug 3, 2017 | Sex and Desire, The Feminine, True Stories |
Next Installment in Having Needs: Why I Live Alone Near the end of my marriage, I proposed at one point that we keep separate houses. I thought this was a great idea: I have my own place, MY space, that I can choose to share with you or not. I thought this idea was...
by Bez Stone | Aug 3, 2017 | Sex and Desire, The Feminine, True Stories, Uncategorized |
This week I’ve decided to do a series on an uncomfortable topic: HAVING NEEDS. It’s a topic I am confronting in my relationship—so I thought, let’s do this together. First things first: the difference between needs and wants. One of my teachers—whom...
by Bez Stone | Mar 29, 2017 | Sex and Desire, The Feminine, True Stories |
I just dug up an old article for a friend that I wrote 3 or 4 years ago, when I was at the start of my sexual expansion. As I read my words from so long ago, what most struck me was my discomfort (back then) with claiming: “I am a woman who likes sex.” I...
by Bez Stone | Mar 16, 2017 | Personal Power, The Feminine |
One of the biggest shifts I’ve made in my sex life over the years and that I encourage my clients to make is away from the painful dynamic of men hunting reluctant women down for sex, towards the more enjoyable dynamic of both partners owning the totality of...
