What Element of great sex is low in your love life?

Answer these question and I’ll show you your perfect path to better sex.

Many women thinking struggling with sex means...


"I don't have time"

Between work and family, I’m overwhelmed.

"It's my partner's fault"

They touch me wrong and don’t understand what I need.

"I'm getting older"

“The honeymoon” is over. And hormonal changes are happening.

"There's something wrong with me"

My libido doesn’t make sense. I’m worried my body is broken.

...and push their sex lives to the back burner.

Sex is vulnerable. When it isn’t working, where do we start and what do we do? It can seem easier to ignore the problem rather than face our emotions of dissatisfaction, confusion, or even heartbreak.

When we put sex on the back burner, it’s a trap. Don’t fall for it! 

Put sex on the front burner where it belongs

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How it works

The 6 basic Elements of women’s fulfillment are like the periodic table of great sex.

But most women don’t know them because no one ever taught us. We don’t understand how our fulfillment works and it’s ruining our sex lives and our relationships. No one taught us how our fulfillment works, and it’s hurting us. Do you want to continue the cycle of unfulfillment you learned from your mother?

I didn’t. At age 30 I decided to break the obligation and performance I’d inherited around sex (be a good woman, don’t ask for too much, make sure your partner’s happy) because it wasn’t making me happy. Instead, by age 30 I resented my partner, lost my sex drive, and was certain there was something wrong with me.

There’s nothing wrong with you. It takes courage and determination to claim your confidence and pleasure as a woman. I’ve found the results are worth it.

I’ve distilled the most common sex problems and solutions into 6 Elements. When sex isn’t working, it means one or more of these are missing. If we don’t add in the missing element, we grow depleted and sex gets pushed to the back burner.

You can love sex and want it and have more of it. Answer these questions and I’ll tell you your perfect path to having sex you love and want more of.

Who am I?

Who am I?

Hi, I’m Bez Stone. I help make sex appealing to women so couples stay together. I’m a Stanford-educated writer and sex coach who’s helped thousands of women just like you feel more confident, sexy, and alive. I live in Santa Cruz, CA with my family.