Your Element is Receiving!

Your strength

You are practical and believe in people. You are naturally loving and very kind and want to help people.

Your trap/weakness

You think sex needs to be fair and even—a two-way street. This often prevents you from being truly present as a giver or receiver, because in both roles you’re worried about whether your partner is happy. You see the beauty in other people but aren’t sure that other people see your beauty as well as you see theirs.You have trouble asking for what you want. You try to do things perfectly so that others want to give back to you.

The key for you

The best thing you could do for your relationship is to receive more. Over-giving doesn’t make you or your partner happy. It leads to resentment and prevents real connection.
Two roles are necessary for sexual connected: giver and receiver. Giving takes strength and skill, but receiving takes a different type of strength and skill as well. If you get better at receiving, your entire relationship will change.
PS: Once you understand that receiving improves your relationships, you’ll do everything in your power to get comfortable receiving even more. 

Follow the path

Start by downloading the Turned On Woman’s Manifesto. It will help you commit to fully receiving love and having mutually fulfilling sex.

What about the other Elements? You’ll learn them all down the path in the 6 Elements course. 

Download the Manifesto

Women who download the manifesto say they read it three times in a row, then get the chills, and then print it out so they can sign it. It’s that powerful.

Download it here for free, then please tell me your reaction.

Take the 6 Elements Course

The concepts in the 6 Elements of Sex You Love Course are must-knows for your confidence, fulfillment, & sanity. Don’t have sex without them!

  • 10-minute modules
  • Written and video materials
  • Start with your Element

Get the App

If you want to learn to swim, you’ve got to get in the pool. Download these 10 laughably simple, no-pressure ways to talk about & explore better sex with your partner. I call them “Quickies.”

Test the beta version here


Inspire other women

Women help women have better sex. Text the quiz to a girlfriend who wants better sex.

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Who am I?

Who am I?

Hi, I’m Bez Stone. I help make sex appealing to women so couples stay together. I’m a Stanford-educated writer and sex coach who’s helped thousands of women just like you feel more confident, sexy, and alive. I live in Santa Cruz, CA with my family.