Your Element is Turn On!

Your strength

You have good taste and want the best. At work and at home, you have an excellent eye for what’s missing and how to make it better. You have a hidden wild side.

Your trap/weakness

You get stuck in the comfort zone. You often wait for your partner to make the first move, then get annoyed when s/he does it wrong. This drives your partner (and your interest in sex) further away. 

The key for you

Forget about your partner for once. What do YOU want?
It’s time to create a life that turns you on. By “turn on” I don’t just mean sexual arousal. Turn on is blushing when people laugh at your joke or your smile when you start dancing or getting naked with someone for the first time. It’s arousal, yes, but more importantly, it’s a feeling of aliveness.
Make feeling turned on your responsibility, not your partner’s. Commit to fully participating in your own sex life. 
PS: Turn on happens outside of your comfort zone.

Follow the path

Start by downloading the Turned On Woman’s Manifesto. It will help you commit to fully participating in your sex life and feel more in love with yourself and your partner.

What about the other Elements? You’ll learn them all down the path in the 6 Elements course. 

Download the Manifesto

Women who download the manifesto say they read it three times in a row, then get the chills, and then print it out so they can sign it. It’s that powerful.

Download it here for free, then please tell me your reaction.

Take the 6 Elements Course

The concepts in the 6 Elements of Sex You Love Course are must-knows for your confidence, fulfillment, & sanity. Don’t have sex without them!

  • 10-minute modules
  • Written and video materials
  • Start with your Element

Get the App

If you want to learn to swim, you’ve got to get in the pool. Download these 10 laughably simple, no-pressure ways to talk about & explore better sex with your partner. I call them “Quickies.”

Test the beta version here


Inspire other women

Women help women have better sex. Text the quiz to a girlfriend who wants better sex.

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Who am I?

Who am I?

Hi, I’m Bez Stone. I help make sex appealing to women so couples stay together. I’m a Stanford-educated writer and sex coach who’s helped thousands of women just like you feel more confident, sexy, and alive. I live in Santa Cruz, CA with my family.