It’s the end of the day. We’re home with our partner after busy days at work. The dishwasher is quietly humming in the finally cleaned kitchen. The kids are in bed. We’re sitting on the couch about to relax, when our partner gives us “that look”—you know the one I mean. The look that means “I want sex.”

And we freeze.

Our relaxation evaporates, our skin bristles, or our muscles tense up. We may love and adore our partners—yet suddenly we are on the defensive. We may have even wanted sex before we saw the look, but now we find ourselves backpedaling.

Why does this happen so often—for women, particularly—in long-term relationships?

The answer may not be what you think.

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Bez Stone

Bez Stone

Advocate for women's sexual fulfillment